A Conversation with Rev. Dr. Tamla Wilson of Texas

Have you ever felt like your faith is confined to Sunday mornings? Like the strength you find in church fades as the week goes on? For many mature Black women, spirituality isn’t just a Sunday hat—it’s the backbone that keeps us standing tall, even when life throws challenges like caregiving burdens, career transitions, and societal pressures our way. It’s the inner strength that guides our steps, fuels our resilience, and lights the way to self-discovery, empowering us to live our best lives, every single day.

Rev. Dr. Tamla Wilson graciously opens up about her spiritual path, offering us a glimpse into a life marked by deep faith, love for her family, and a commitment to serving others.

A Life of Faith and Service

• Director of Institutional Relations at Bridgeway Capital Management
• Ordained minister and Doctor of Ministry
• Founder of The Waiting Room infertility ministry and Capes Off, Masks On self-care group
• Spiritual Advisor and passionate advocate for holistic self-care and spiritual growth

A Journey of Faith, Shaped by Life’s Challenges

Dr. Wilson’s spiritual journey is a testament to the transformative power of faith, particularly amidst adversity. Over 15 years ago, at the age of 39, she faced the profound challenge of infertility. “My journey with infertility taught me so much about resilience, surrender, and the unwavering love of God,” she reflects. “I remember nights spent wrestling with God, tears soaking my pillow. But through those dark hours, I discovered a strength within myself I never knew existed. That’s when my faith became less about answers and more about an unwavering presence.”

Through her faith, Dr. Wilson found strength and solace. She learned to balance the demands of her career, family, and personal life with the unwavering pursuit of her spiritual goals. “Prioritizing God became my anchor,” she says. “When I felt overwhelmed by the demands of being a mother, a wife, and a professional, I knew I needed to realign my focus and spend more time in prayer and reflection.”

Embracing Spiritual Leadership as a Woman

Dr. Wilson is a shining example of what it means to embody spiritual leadership as a woman. She’s inspired countless others by sharing her own struggles with infertility and divorce.

“Sharing my story has deepened my connection to my faith and ministry,” she shares. “It has allowed me to create a space of healing and support for women who are navigating their own challenges.”

Her ministry, The Waiting Room, has been a source of hope for women facing infertility. “We’ve celebrated countless births and also walked alongside those who will never give birth,” she says with compassion. “One woman, after years of struggling with infertility, found peace and purpose through our ministry. She now mentors young women in our community, sharing her story of resilience and hope. It’s a sacred space for sharing, healing, and finding strength in sisterhood.”

Nurturing Spirituality in Everyday Life

Dr. Wilson believes that spirituality should be integrated into our daily routines and practices. “Finding moments of peace and connection amidst the busyness of life is essential,” she advises. “Creating a sacred space within your home—maybe a quiet corner with a candle and a comfy chair, or a dedicated time for a walk in nature—can provide a sanctuary for reflection and solace.”

She also emphasizes the importance of prioritizing self-care. “Taking care of your physical, mental, and emotional well-being is not selfish; it’s necessary,” she states. “Try a 5-minute meditation app, or dedicate Sunday afternoons to meal prepping healthy food for the week. Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup.”

Wisdom for the Journey

Dr. Wilson offers words of encouragement for women who are seeking a deeper spiritual connection: “Listen to God, listen to your body, and listen to your spirit,” she advises. “Cultivate a strong prayer life—remembering it’s a dialogue, not a monologue—read your Bible, and surround yourself with supportive sisters in faith.”

Beyond Sunday Mornings

Dr. Wilson’s journey is a powerful reminder that spirituality is not confined to Sunday mornings. It’s a lifelong pursuit, a constant source of strength and guidance, and a path to living your best life.

In the midst of your busy life, remember to prioritize your spiritual well-being. Create sacred spaces, nurture your faith, and find solace in your own story.

Remember, your spiritual connection is a source of resilience, hope, and joy. Embrace it, nurture it, and let it guide you towards a life of purpose and fulfillment.

Pearls of Wisdom from Rev. Dr. Tamla Wilson:

• “Prioritize God in your life and make Him the center of your children’s lives.”
• “Prayer is a dialogue, not a monologue. Allow God to answer.”
• “Read your Bible. It is a living, breathing document that will speak to you in your situation.”
• “Practice self-care. Take care of your physical, mental, and emotional well-being.”
• “Set boundaries and enforce them. Don’t let anyone talk to you in any kind of way.”
• “Don’t give up on love. Keep loving yourself and be open to the possibilities.”

Connect with Rev. Dr. Tamla Wilson:

• Website: tamlawilsonministries.com
• Instagram: @RevDrSpice_aka_TamlaWilson

Resources:

• Dr. Tamla Wilson’s dissertation, “Capes Off, Mask On:  Holistic Self-Care for Black Women in Ministry,” will be published soon. It offers valuable insights into self-care and spiritual growth.
• Her upcoming journal, “My Leaves Stay Green,” will provide further guidance and inspiration.
• Check out Dr. Wilson’s sermons on YouTube ‘Tamla Wilson Ministries‘ for additional spiritual nourishment. Here’s one that may bless you, listen here.

Let’s continue to support and uplift one another as we deepen our spiritual connections and live our best lives, beyond Sunday mornings.

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